So
the question is how you can know if the
dating site of your choice is reputable
and how can you know the person you are
getting in touch is a genuine match?:
On
the huge ocean of Internet, there are hundreds
of free dating sites with maybe a dozen
of them reputable enough to give them a
try. But the biggest problem with trying
totally free dating sites is that it just
doesn't attracts innocent individuals like
you. It attracts scammers who are creating
hundreds of fake profiles everyday, looking
forward to wrong moves from genuine people.
So most of the time, giving hundreds of
free dating sites a try is waste of time
which may discourage you to find someone
genuine online. So if you really intend
to find someone to build a relationship,
it's better you find a reputable and cheap
dating site where you can meet real people.
After
you decided to go with a dating site of
your choice, you must keep in mind some
of these simple rules for avoiding ghost
profiles:
* Use a dating site with distance searching.
That tremendously effects your chances.
* Before trying dating sites with millions
of members, try cheap but reputable growing
sites with hundreds of profiles You will
have more chance to meet someone who can
reply to you as these profiles will not
be overwhelmed with thousands of messages
everyday.
* After you sign up with the dating site,
whilst searching for your dream mate, always
look into the photos that may be fake, eliminate
your options to a smaller pool.
* Read profiles,look for sincere and honest
descriptions in their personal ads.
* If you receive a message from a too good
to be true beauty especially from overseas
with so much interest in you be careful
with them. Look into their messages and
if any part of their messages, they talk
about financial problems or even if they
tell you their salary honestly, run away
from them as you are 90% approached by a
scammer.
* Even if you exchange tens of messages
with someone, never send money for plane
tickets, visas, etc. as this is 99.9% scamming
technique, cyber-thieves using everyday.
* After exchanging a few messages, try chatting
online and/or on the phone with your match.
So
these are some clues for finding a genuine
match that you can try building a relationship
with. Keep these rules in your mind and
go with your instincts. Who knows, maybe
you'll be the next success story on a decent
dating site.
Cenk
Butunley is the founder of MyBestDate, an
Online Dating Service serving internationally.
He has specialized in software engineering
since 1998, including three years as a Senior
Developer for Bromcom Computers Plc., a
software publishing company.
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